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a mother's advice to her daughter for marriage --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
‘Abd al-Malik (RA) said: “When ‘Awf ibn Muhallim al-Shaybani, one of the most highly respected leaders of the Arab nobility during the jahiliyyah, married his daughter Umm Iyas to al-Harith ibn ‘Amr al-Kindi, she was made ready to be taken to the groom, then her mother, Umamah came into her, to advise her and said:
‘O my daughter, if it were deemed unnecessary to give you this advice because of good manners and noble descent, then it would have been unnecessary for you, because you posses these qualities, but it will serve as a reminder to those who are forgetful, and will help those who are wise.
‘O my daughter, if a woman were able to do without a husband by virtue of her father’s wealth and her need for her father, then you of all people would be most able to do without a husband, but women were created for men just as men were created for them.
‘O my daughter, you are about to leave the home in which you grew up, where you first learned to walk, to go to a place you do not know, to a companion to whom you are unfamiliar. By marrying you, he has become a master over you, so be like a servant to him, and he will become like a servant to you.
‘Take from me ten qualities, which will be a provision and a reminder for you.
‘The first and second of them are: be content in his company, and listen to and obey him, for contentment brings peace of mind, and listening to and obeying one’s husband pleases Allah.
‘The third and fourth of them are: make sure that you smell good and look good; he should not see anything ugly in you, and he should not smell anything but a pleasant smell from you. Kohl is the best kind of beautification to be found, and water is better than the rarest perfume.
‘The fifth and sixth of them are: prepare his food on time, and keep quiet when he is asleep, for raging hunger is like a burning flame, and disturbing his sleep will make him angry.
‘The seventh and eighth of them are: take care of his servants (or employees) and children, and take care of his wealth, for taking care of his wealth shows that you appreciate him, and taking care of his children and servants shows good management.
‘The ninth and tenth of them are: never disclose any of his secrets, and never disobey any of his orders, for if you disclose any of his secrets you will never feel safe from his possible betrayal, and if you disobey him, his heart will be filled with hatred towards you.
‘Be careful, O my daughter, of showing joy in front of him when he is upset, and do not show sorrow in front of him when he is happy, because the former shows a lack of judgment whilst the latter will make him unhappy. ‘Show him as much honor and respect as you can, and agree with him as much as you can, so that he will enjoy your companionship and conversation.
‘Know, O my daughter, that you will not achieve what you would like to until you put his pleasure before your own, and his wishes before yours, in whatever you like and dislike. And may Allah choose what is best for you and protect you.” __________________
Our Lord! Perfect our light for us and forgive us our sins, for verily You have power over all things. (66:8)
Muslim Woman as Defined in the Qur'an and Sunnah The True Islamic Personality of the Muslim Woman By Dr. Muhammad Ali Al-Hashimi
1. She is truthful 2 She does not cheat, deceive or stab in the back 3. She is not envious 4. She is sincere 5. She keeps her promises 6. She has a good attitude towards others and treats them well 7. She is characterized by shyness 8. She is gentle towards people 9. She is compassionate and merciful 10. She is tolerant and forgiving 11. She is easy-going in her business dealings 12. She is of cheerful countenance 13. She has a sense of humor 14. She is patient 15. She avoids cursing and foul language 16. She does not falsely accuse anyone of fisq (transgression) or kufr (blasphemy) 17. She is modest and discreet 18. She dose not interfere in that which does not concern her 19. She refrains from backbiting and slander 20. She avoids giving false statements 21. She avoids suspicion 22. She keeps secrets 23. She does not converse privately with another person when there is a third person present 24. She is not arrogant or proud 25. She is humble and modest 26. She does not make fun of anyone 27. She respects elders and distinguished people 28. She mixes with people of noble character 29. She strives for people’s benefits and seeks to protect her from harm 30. She strives to reconcile between Muslims 31. She calls people to truth 32. She is wise and eloquent in her da..wah (Islamic Propagation) 34. She is not a hypocrite 35. She does not show off or boast 36. She is straightforward and consistent in her adherence to the truth 37. She visits the sick 39. She repays favors and is grateful for them 40. She mixes with people and puts up with their insults 41. She tries to make people happy 42. She guides others to righteous deeds 43. She is easy on people, not hard 44. She is fair in her judgment of people 45. She does not oppress or mistreat others 46. She loves noble things and always aims high 47. Her speech is not exaggerated or affected 48. She does not rejoice in the misfortunes of others 49. She is generous 50. She does not remind the beneficiaries of her charity 51. She is hospitable 52. She prefers others to herself 53. She helps to alleviate the burden of the debtor 54. She is proud and does not beg 55. She is friendly and likeable 56. She checks her customs and habits against Islamic standards 57. She follows Islamic manners in the way she eats and drinks 58. She spreads the greeting of salam (peace) 59. She does not enter a house other than her own without permission 60. She avoids yawning in a gathering as much as she can 62. She follows the Islamic etiquette when she sneezes 63. She does not look into other people’s houses 64. She does not imitate men
"Do not give up on yourself, because change is usually slow; you will encounter obstacles that will discourage you, but do not let these obstacles defeat you."
"Your gold is your religion, your adornment is your moral attitude, and your wealth is your good manners."
"When distress strikes and calamities come one after another, then say: La ilaha illallah."
"Take from the breeze its tenderness, from the musk its fragrance and from the mountains steadfastness."
"Do not make your problems the subject of conversations with others, for by doing so you create a barrier between yourself and happiness."
"The mother whose child falls from a high place should not waste time weeping; rather, she should focus on tending to his injuries."
"The most sincere generosity comes from those who do not have anything but recognise the value of a kind word and a smile, How many people give, but it is as if they are giving a slap."
"The most difficult time could be made easier by the smile of a confident person."
"Prepare for the worst, then you will feeel that things are getting better."
"Do not feel sad or miserable because of some work that you could not complete, rather you should understand that the work of great people is never done."
"Be happy now, today, not tomorrow."
"Frustration is your worst enermy, for it has the power to destroy peace of mind."
"Your happiness does not depend on anyone else, rather, it is in your hands."
"Work is the fuel of hope and the enemy of failure."
"Yesterday is a dream that has gone and tomorrow is merely a beautiful hope. Only today is real."
"Physical well-being comes from eating little, mental well-being comes from sinning little, well-being of the heart comes from worrying little and well-being of the tongue comes from speaking little."
"Is she happy who shows her beauty to the dogs of mankind and displays her charm to the wolves of them?"
"Men regret speaking, but he will never regret silence."
"In order to be beautiful, your thoughts should be so."
"Man finds happiness in a word that comes from the lips of a woman."
"The strongest fortress is a righteous woman."
"Nothing raises the status of a woman like chastity."
"If a beautiful woman is a jewel, a righteous woman is a treasure."
"The best thing a man can have is a faithful wife."
"Be beautiful and you will see the world beautiful."
"A wise man said: 'I have never regretted what I did not say, but I have often regretted what I did say.' "
"Do not wait to be happy so that you smile but smile to be happy."
"Be optimistic, even if you are in the eye of the storm."
"Soon the flowers will bloom, grief will depart and happiness will prevail."
"Leave the wrongdoer to the court of the Hereafter when there will be no judge but Allah"
"Sickness is a message in which there is a glad tiding; and good health is a garment that has a price."
"Plant a tasbih (saying Subhan Allah) in a second , an idea in a minute, and a deed in an hour."
"Control your thoughts and you will be happy."
YOU CAN BE THE HAPPIEST WOMAN IN THE WORLD - DR. 'A'id al Qarni
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